never regret what once made you smile.

i'm indecisive in most things in my life. but regret is probably one of those things where it happens the most. as weird as it sounds seeing as regret isn't exactly a situation in itself so therefore its a little hard to define where the deciding factor comes in, but oh well. that's me. weird.

what do you do when you come to think you're regretting something, but upon further thought, there are still happy and positive aspects to that which you think you regret? do you just stick to your guns and concluded that it was _overall_ a regrettable situation? or do you then, like me, come to a crossroads of regret versus then feeling a little bad because it wasn't _all_ regrettable?

when i can acknowledge that i absolutely 100% regret something, i know i can then just go ahead and cut whatever caused that to happen out of my life and not have it happen again. but at a crossroads, what do you do? you can't cut it out because parts of it made you happy. you can't just leave it in as is because it still made you miserable at some point or another.


"never regret what once made you smile" - can't do it. more than likely what made me smile also made me cry. let's call it 50-50.